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Good funeral homes are genuinely deeply sorry for their customers' losses. They understand that there is nothing worse than losing a loved one and you are going to need all the help you can get. That's why they offer a number of services besides just renting the actual funeral home.

Some companies will help you with the pre-funeral tasks. Yes, this includes grieving. You can trust them with taking care of decisions if you are feeling too emotional to handle it. You can count on them to make your decisions if you aren't able.

The ceremony will be organized for you. You should be able to give some input with guest speakers at least, but decorating the wake, the casket, clothing, make up and the funeral can all be taken care of.

There will be employees at the actual ceremonies that will help guide your guests. They will be instructed where to sit, when to come in and when to leave. Whether the arrangements are pre-needed or at-needed you will be taken care of.

The first thing you need to consider is to set a date and time for the gathering. A weekend or weekday evening is best to make sure everybody is out of work and can attend. You want to be sure that it feels right for you. Then you will need to find a pastor, priest, minister, rabbi or other officials to lead the ceremony. Then you will appoint someone to officiate at the service. Someone will need to welcome the people attending, the speakers, start prayers and songs and will certainly need to direct periods of silence. All of this needs to be done a week or more before the service.

Several days before the service you will need to designate speakers. This means you have to pick who will deliver the eulogies. Also, music and songs will need to be picked out and decided how it will be played. Sometimes services have in house organ players. Maybe you want an acoustic guitar player. Whatever you feel is best to represent your lost loved one. Then you decide who should be invited and write out and print the programs and memorial notices. People are going to want to have a little memory token for the special person who has just passed. Lastly you will have to arrange things like flowers, food, photographer and the guestbook.

Services are available to do all of this for you. You just have to point them in the right direction and give them approval on decisions so they can take care of it from there.